At what age can a child choose which parent to live with in Pakistan?
 


Introduction:

You may wonder at what age can a child choose which parent to live with in Pakistan? The law is set out in Section 22 of the Pakistan Muslim Family Laws Ordinance, 1981 (Ordinance). This section provides that when a child reaches the age of 16 years, he or she shall be deemed to have attained majority. This means that a child's parents/legal guardians cannot make any decision for him or her unless he has consented to it himself or she acknowledges an offer of enrolment to live with the other parent/guardian without objection from him/her.

The Pakistani family law is more complicated than most of the other civil law systems. The law allows for a child to decide who they want to live with, and when he or she turns 16 years old. There is no minimum age under which a child can file a petition for full custody from one parent and chooses another parent by saying that he or she does not wish to live with either parent anymore. However, a child cannot decide for themselves whether they want to keep contact with either parent and live with them at the same time until they reach 16 years old.

At what age can a child choose which parent to live with in Pakistan?

There are no set guidelines for when a child should choose which parent to live with in Pakistan. However, there are some factors that can determine how soon a child will start to make this decision on their own.

If the parents live in different cities or countries, then it may help if the child has some understanding of geography and culture. The child may also be familiar with the idea of separating from one parent and moving to another country.

It is important for children to learn about divorce as early as possible so that they are not frightened by the idea of breaking up their family unit. This can help them feel more prepared for what may lie ahead after they reach an age where they can legally make such decisions themselves.

How is the child's best interest established in Pakistan?

The best interest of a child is established with the consent and participation of both parents as well as the court.

According to Islam, children have the right to live with their mother until they reach adulthood. However, if the father has custody of his son, he has no right to take him out of the country. The father can only take his son abroad when he is older than 10 years old.

If the mother dies or leaves her home without leaving a will, then the custody of her daughter will be given to her husband according to Islamic law. If she does not have a husband, then Imam-e-Umar (6th century) ruled that she should be given custody of her daughter until she becomes an adult.

Can a child choose which parent to live with in Pakistan?

In Pakistan, the law is unclear on whether a child can choose which parent to live with.

According to Section 24 of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1939, "the marriage of a minor shall be void". But this does not apply to children who have attained majority (18 years).

The Child Marriage Restraint Act of 1929 says that a child cannot marry without the permission of his or her guardians. The guardians are usually their parents, but in some cases they may be an adult relative who is legally responsible for them.

There are two exceptions: if one guardian dies and the other is willing to take care of the child, or if both parents agree to give permission.

In Pakistan, children over 12 years old can apply for passports and other official documents by themselves. However, if they don't have a passport from their country of origin or residence, they will need a letter from their legal guardian saying that he or she has given permission for them to travel abroad without supervision.

How can I ensure that my child gets equal time with both parents in joint custody?

You can ask the court to appoint a children's lawyer who will fight your case in court on behalf of your child. You can also ask the judge to order joint custody, which means that you and your ex-partner (the non-custodial parent) would each get equal time with your child.

If you are seeking sole custody, you must prove that it is in the best interest of the child to live with one parent rather than another. If one parent has sole custody and the other parent has visitation rights, then there is a high risk that this situation will be unstable and will not be good for the child's welfare.

What factors does the court consider when deciding if a child will live with one parent or both parents?

In Pakistan, the law does not allow for joint custody. One parent will always have legal custody of the child, and the other parent can only visit their child under certain circumstances.

In the case of divorce, both parents are presumed to be fit to care for their child without any intervention from the court. However, if one parent is unfit to care for their child, then the court may intervene and appoint a guardian to take over the responsibilities of that parent. In some cases, a third party may also be appointed by the court as a temporary guardian until such time as a permanent guardian can be found.

When considering who should have custody of your child, there are several factors that courts will consider when making a decision:

1) The best interests of the child

2) Strength of evidence regarding each parent's ability to care for your child properly

3) Degree of involvement in your child's life by each parent

4) Any history between each you and your ex-spouse/ex-partner.

Conclusion

This change in law represents a step in the right direction, as it reduces the familial conflict over children and allows them to decide which parent to live with. However, it still fails to offer this right to every child. The current disagreement is due to the failure of the law in granting youth the ability to make decisions on their own during such an emotionally volatile part of their life.

Many legal professionals are pushing for amendments that allow youth more autonomy over other significant decisions made in their life. Ultimately, this will lead to the reduction of parental fighting by reducing the role parents have over their children's choice of residence. This is a welcome change for families across Pakistan and one that is desperately needed.